When you think about moving forward in your life, it is likely that you look to the past first, then the present and then, hopefully, you project to your future.
You see it's really like this. YOU are to determine what you create, and no one else. When you are in a relationship with a significant other, you must consider what the other person desires to create and then, knowing what it is, you work WITH that person to co-create a reality.
Sadly for many people, as they age, their people do not always change and grow with them. When their people fail to level up with them, they usually find, after some soul searching in order to continue on their journey, they must move forward without those people. Often this movement forward includes leaving behind homes, pets, belongings and work places.
Life here on this planet is all about creating. Failure to realize that will result in life in blaming others for your situation is dominant. When this happens, the blamer is seeing themselves as a victim in their reality. Remaining a victim creates a lack of growth.
Often people decided to have lives on this planet to experience tremendous growth. Tremendous growth often involves pain, discomfort and overcoming any addiction that they have chosen. Yes, we choose our struggles because when we overcome them and truly heal, we NEVER go back to the way things were. That's why we outgrow situations, people, jobs, certain pets, and geographic locations.
Hopefully, because you are reading this Blog Post, you are not a victim but empowered. That is what I ask many of my female client. Are you a victim or are you empowered? Many of them reflect for a moment or two, and because they are working on themselves, they reply that they are empowered.
Much love to you on your journey in this life,